Dr. Molly’s Weblog

Molly O’Shea starts a revolution in pediatric care

The website is launched!!!! March 13, 2009

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For those of you looking for my blog, you will now find it on my WEBSITE!!!!  I have waited a long time to get this up and running and I am thrilled with it!  Some editing still needs to take place but I can’t wait for all of you to go there and explore the site.

For blogs that are personal, like the ones about Spanx or the kids, I have started a series of blogs on my Live + Share page called DrMolly’s Musings.  On that same page you will find recipes, family fun outings and green living tips.  You too can add to the storehouse and even post a topic or question.  Looking for a good place for you child to take karate?  Post it!  Have a great family friendly recipe?  Post it!  Have a great parenting tip or cleaning tip or green living tip?  Post it!  The more you add, the richer the site will be.  

For my more medically oriented blogs, you will navigate to the Health + Wellness section of the site and you can choose blogs based on keywords to read (like constipation or sexuality or allergies) or just peruse the titles and read those you are interested in. 

On each page, just below the picture, is ‘Need a medical answer now?’ and if you click on that, it takes you to the University of Michigan Mott Children’s Hospital online encyclopedia of all childhood symptoms, illness, and medical problems.  This searchable data base is a superb and reliable source of information for you!

Enjoy the new site, post your questions and recipes and family fun and green living ideas and each day will be your best!

Molly O’Shea, MD  Birmingham Pediatrics + Wellness Center

www.birminghampediatrics.com 

 

The final word on pertussis for now March 5, 2009

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Over the last two weeks in my office I have seen four cases of pertussis, or whooping cough. One of the four children had received no vaccines, but the other three were fully vaccinated and still young enough (between the ages of 7-10) that their immunity from the vaccine should still be in full effect. In August, I had four other cases of whooping cough with the same distribution of vaccinated to unvaccinated kids, which has now caused me to worry more about any child who comes in with significant cough.

Most kids get the DTaP vaccine during infancy and boosters at around 12-18 months, 4-5 years and 11-12 years. Teenagers and adults should get the vaccine as well every ten years or so since immunity will wane and they will be at greater risk contracting the illness if exposed. The “P” of the vaccine protects against pertussis, also known as the whooping cough. The problem is that the vaccine isn’t perfect and about 12-20% of the kids that get the vaccine won’t develop adequate immunity to whooping cough. Back when virtually everyone got the vaccine, this wasn’t such a big deal because even those folks who didn’t respond were protected in a way by the fact that the illness was much less prevalent because everyone else was immune. Now with more parents opting to delay or not give vaccines, we are seeing a real uptick in the incidence of whooping cough in children.

Pertussis in one of the most contagious illnesses around. According to Dr. Basim Asmar, chief of the Division of Infectious Disease at Children’s Hospital of Michigan, almost all people who are not immune to whooping cough who are exposed to it will get it. That means those 12 percent-20 percent of vaccinated kids are doomed to illness if they get exposed as are all unvaccinated people and anyone older whose immunity has diminished over time.

The illess is spread through droplets coughed in your face and then inhaled. If your child has been exposed to the whooping cough, it takes about seven-10 days for the symptoms of illness to appear. the The illness can be averted if antibiotics are taken during this incubation period. The bacteria can’t live for any length of time on surfaces or clothing, so you needn’t worry about toys and clothing but rather just direct exposure to the child in who is infected.

Given the fact that the incidence is on the rise, what should a parent look for? Pertussis initially looks like a mild cold with some cough. It has less runny nose than the winter viruses and fever is not that common with it. After a week or two ,the cough begins to get dramatically worse and is associated with severe coughing jags day and night. The cough can be severe enough to cause vomiting, broken blood vessels in the white of the eye and on the skin around the eyes, a loud intake of air after the jag (the “whoop”) and even cracked ribs from coughing. This severe coughing phase can last two-four weeks followed by another month or so of slow, gradual recovery with diminishing cough and fatigue.

As bad as this all sounds, it can be worse. Infants, especially under 6 months of age, can stop breathing as a result of the illness and up to 5 percent of the smallest infants will die as a result. People of any age can develop pneumonia as a complication, which you might imagine makes the coughing even worse. Many people end up hospitalized for dehydration because eating and drinking can trigger severe coughing and vomiting, while others end up in the hospital for supplemental oxygen. It is one bad illness.

Whooping cough can be tested for by taking a sample of snot from the back of the nose and sending it to a lab for a test called a pertussis PCR. It is much more sensitive than a culture and allows for a more rapid diagnosis, getting an answer in about two-three days.

So if your child has a coughing illness that is lasting more than a week and still getting worse, especially if he or she is not vaccinated, pertussis needs to be on the list for serious consideration. If the test comes back positive, your child will need to be put on a course of antibiotics to decrease the spread to others and the antibiotics may decrease the severity of the illness. Also, all of the people the child comes in contact with in the household need to be put on antibiotics as do other close contacts for prophylaxis. For example, if your child has had a sleep over during the illness, all of the other kids should be put on antibiotics in the hopes of preventing the illness.

Be aware of your risks, get your shots, and remember that even grown ups need em and each day will be your best!

Molly O’Shea, MD  Birmingham Pediatrics + Wellness Center

www.birminghampediatrics.com

 

Masturbation in young kids….yep you read it right March 2, 2009

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Your 5 year old son is constantly ‘adjusting’ his underwear.

Your 3 year old daughter is ‘riding’ the arm of the couch a lot lately.

Your 4 year old daughter seems to ‘dance’ in her car seat and wriggle her hips up against the clasp for the seat belt between her legs.

Your 6 year old son is complaining that when his penis gets big it hurts.

Your 7 year old daughter is ‘itching’ her private parts so much that you wonder if she has a yeast infection.

What all these children have in common is that they are masturbating. I know you are surprised but it is true. Virtually all children, both boys and girls, starting around the time of potty training discover themselves and let’s face it, it feels good. Because it feels good, the exploration continues and some children will find lots of ways to stimulate themselves.

I get a ton of questions from worried parents about this on a regular basis. I think it is a bit of a taboo topic for parents to discuss with each other and sheepishly or with great angst they bring it up with me. Most parents are worried that interest in masturbation at this age means they are going to have a ’sexpot’ as an older child but this is not the case. Masturbation before the hormones of puberty are contributing is not sexual. It just feels good. It feels good like scratching an itch feels good or having someone rub your back feels good. It isn’t sexual, just satisfying.

I advise parents who are worried that the child will do these behaviors in public that it is important to teach kids at this young age that private parts are private for a reason and if they want to touch them, they need to do so in a private place like the bathroom or the bedroom. Since kids don’t experience this as a sexual feeling (even though they may really enjoy it), the fact that this sort of ‘good feeling’ can’t be done in the kitchen or the classroom makes it that much more appealing for some. Often, parents will find the child will increase the behavior after the parent has drawn attention to it and consistency about the need to be in a private place is important.

Some kids start to ask more pointed questions about their bodies and yours during this time and others will even want to see the private parts of their peers through ‘playing doctor.’ This is a great opportunity for parents to talk frankly and openly with their kids about their bodies and how they differ from grown up bodies. It is a great opportunity to reinforce the rules about who can see private parts and who can’t, who can touch private parts and who cannot. It is also a great opportunity to lay the groundwork for later discussions about sex and sexuality. By talking openly, frankly, and without embarrassment about this, you will start a dialogue that is natural and comfortable and will serve you well as your child grows and matures.

Sometimes, our own past comes back to haunt us when our kids start to ask us questions or explore their bodies.  Perhaps you were told you were dirty as a child or maybe masturbation was punished in your household.  You may have chosen to be sexually active at an early age or had sexually traumatic experiences as a child or adolescent.  Sometimes we were never talked to at all about our bodies and later sexuality.  Any of these woud make it very difficult, uncomfortable and anxiety producing to talk to your kids about this natural, normal part of life.  I encourage you to talk to your partner or a mental health counselor to work through these feelings and not repeat the past mistakes with this generation of children.

Here are some good books to help open the discussion with your younger children (ages 3-8).

Amazing You

What’s The Big Secret

And for older kids (9-12)

Body Science

For parents:

Speaking of Sex: What your child needs to know and when they need to know it

Remember for young kids its not about sex, talk openly with your kids, and don’t worry and each day will be your best!

Molly O’Shea, MD  Birmingham Pediatrics + Wellness Center

www.birminghampediatrics.com